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 Little wonder then that a zillion blokes have become fed up with dating women just to find themselves getting nowhere fast? You'll often see a man sigh and come out with that age old idiom; 'Woman! Can't live with them, can't live without them! But if you listen to the ladies, even the most confident of men tend to pole vault over mouse poop when it comes to a simple rendezvous. They complicate straightforward issues like organising a venue, and most have no idea how to behave on that first date without constantly feeling the need to impress. Men, say the women, frequently ruin everything by making some daft or totally unnecessary decisions or remarks.
So what's the secret behind successfully dating women? Perhaps it's just that men in general haven't got a clue on how to go about it no matter what tips and advice they have had before hand? The internet has provided us with way too much information overload and maybe it's this 'date preparation and expectation' that's having a negative effect. Whatever happened to just turning up and being you and letting the flow of the date take its natural course?
According to women, we men tend to have pretty big egos generally and therefore will blame anyone and everyone but ourselves when a romantic meeting goes tits-up! Most blokes will deny this of course, especially the youth, but if we step back and really look at ourselves, how many of us could admit to being an egomaniac with an inferiority complex when it comes to wooing women? The primary ingredient for a successful date is the same today as it was in our parents and grandparents generation, and that is women still love a little splash of romantic sentiment on any date. Don't let the ambition and feminist facade fool you guys, starry-eyed emotion is still alive and kicking.
Hmm! Is Dating Women & Romance really still in vogue?
Guys, no matter whether you're dating older women, dating Asian women, or those from your own ethnic and age groups, the biggest turn on for any woman of any age, whatever her cultural background or religious beliefs, is ROMANCE.
Despite the women's movement, girl power (whatever the heck that is!), career climbing executives, or female boxers, wrestlers, and footballers, a woman is still a woman, and she likes nothing more than to be wined and dined in a romantic setting while at the same time being showered with a few carefully chosen complements and perhaps a small gift to show a little appreciation from the one dating her.
Here's a fact for you. Women generally have much bigger mouths than men. Ever wondered why? It's simple. Our lovely ladies love to talk. It's the same the world over. They have been built to dominate conversation. They are the queens of gossip. Now we blokes generally have bigger ears than women. Get the picture? That's right - we're supposed to listen to the ladies. Successfully dating women is all about paying attention to what our lady is saying. If she finds herself listening to you for most of the date, it will most probably be your first and last rendezvous with this one.
The time has come to STOP trying to impress the ladies, especially the older gals. They just not impressed with showing off act anymore! They don't want to know about your recent achievements, or about your long term ambitions, let alone your material possessions. Modern women no longer depend on us for any of this in the New Millennium. It's time to leave the ego at home, and bring out your caring considerate soft yet affirmative qualities with you on that first date. Speak when spoken to, or ask questions about her and her life! It is these things, and these things alone, that will win over your date.
Don't even think about Dating Women if your're not a Well Groomed Man!
Yes we live in a world where men have got in touch with their feminine side (much to the disgust of granddad), and we're certainly better turned out than the generations before us. But that said, a lot of guys go far too casual on the casual look. Overly causal will appear as though you have made little or no effort, and that's hardly going to score any brownie points with most women.
There's a very simple rule to remember when it comes to dating women for the first time, and that is you will not get a second chance to make that first impression. Spruce yourself up a little and show that you're out to impress without having to open your mouth. Unless that facial stubble is a designer type of shadow that's with you constantly, make sure you take a close shave and use a little cologne (without going overboard on the scent). Women look at fingernails and footwear and are notorious for writing a first date off on these things alone.
We still live in a world where it is the man who pursues the women, or at least on the face of it. Despite the masculinity and equality of Western females, the dating game has yet to become more even. Given the choice, most men prefer dating a younger woman than those older than themselves. Older divorced or separated married women wanting to date younger guys should be avoided them like the plague. Such relationships nearly always end in tears.
Single men seeking unattached women is by far the best way forward if it's a long term relationship you're after. Singles dating online is perhaps the best method for setting yourself up with a string of dates without having to creep around the pubs and clubs competing with the world and his brother. Online dating is smart dating, and it's much, much, easier to line up dates and make new friends than the night spots of the bricks and mortar world.
Dating Women of the Twenty First Century is easy-peazy so long as you keep it simple, scrub up, be yourself, and listen to the lady. Good luck!
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Men Dating Women in the Twenty First Century!
